I’m not one for making new year’s resolutions. Perhaps it’s the knowledge that there’s a really good chance I’d be setting myself up for failure, or perhaps it’s the fact that I make resolutions and goals for myself all year long, but I’ve never really jumped on the resolutions bandwagon. I do, however, love the reflection, reevaluation, and goal-making that comes with beginning a brand new year. Many have chosen a single word on which to focus; “one little word” to guide their year. As Ali Edwards explains on her blog:
“The premise is simple – choose a word to invite into your life for the coming year. You live with it. You let it speak to you. You might even follow where it leads. There are so many possibilities and no right or wrong way to approach the adventure.”
Last year, I chose “balance” as the word to guide my year. It’s hard for me to move my focus in another direction, since I know from the depths of my soul that balance is still very much at the top of my goals list, and most likely will always be there. In reflecting over the past year, I think I did a really great job of balancing quilting with family, friends, and the rest of life, at least up until the last couple of months. Toward the end of the year, I let my excitement at my success at making time to sew despite my full plate bubble over, and I bit off more than I could chew. I’m still floundering to get caught up so that I can feel that refreshed new year, new start feeling. I’ll get there.
With all of that in mind, I’ve finally settled on a word to guide my 2016: nurture.
Even beyond the obvious–the nurture of my three kids–this word is one that I hope will guide my year in a positive way on all levels. Yes, I will aim to care for and encourage the growth and development of my children first and foremost. That almost goes without saying. But I will also use this word to guide other areas of my life:
- My relationship with my husband–so easy to let slide as our family grows
- My family as a whole–family fun time all together!
- Myself–making time for self-care IS essential
- Relationships with friends–mommy playdates even when the kids are in school soothes my soul
- My piecing skills–I want to master curves, and always keep learning
- My quilting skills–more free motion quilting practice, hand quilting, stretching my quilting style
- My handwork–I want to sew all the things! embroidery, visible mending, applique, sashiko…
- My creativity–regularly sketching and developing new patterns helps exercise my creative mind
- Quilting community–I love this community and want to continue to share inspiration, ideas, and creativity with you. YOU nurture me!
- The business side of quilting–finding a balance of business commitments that nurtures my creativity while staying true to my ideals and working toward my goals
- The garden–I let the garden go last year because of Finn’s birth, but this year I want to nourish our bodies with homegrown food again
I suppose it’s a good thing that my biggest problem is wanting to say yes to everything, and wanting to create even half of the ideas that inspire me. But balance is key. This year, I hope to let NURTURE guide my creative, personal, family, and business decisions and continue to let my creativity shine.
I’ve been letting my blogging slide a bit so far this year, but plan to get back into the rhythm of sharing inspiration here. As I mentioned above, I bit off more than I could chew at the end of last year, so I’m still working hard to catch up and meet some final deadlines. I miss you, and will share more soon! Thank you for following along with my creative process, and I look forward to many inspiring conversations in the year ahead! May this blog help nurture your creativity as well!
12 thoughts on “One Little Word for 2016: Nurture”
Don’t worry about the “writing”…you can always just post a picture with only one word. This way we know you are still creating along with us.
Glad to see you included nurturing yourself in the list. Very important to enable all the other nurturing. Here’s to getting out of the current overload. Tasks always look so much easier in the abstract when being asked to commit to them. Catches me too at times.
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Balance and Nurture are great words that go hand in hand. I hope you are having a lovely start to the new year.
I just learned new word! You are always so very inspirational!
I feel like nurturing ourselves can be the hardest one on the list sometimes. I know for many, myself included, we sometimes just keep giving and giving to other things and people until we’re running on empty. Good for you for including yourself on the nurture list!
Wonderful word for you, and I’m so glad YOU are on your list! My word for the year is PLAY! I tend to be quite serious, and it’s time to be a little more light-hearted and allow for more joy and downright silliness.
With little kids in the mix, I think “balance” is a word to hold onto for a several years.
I’m not a New Year’s Resolution kinda girl either, but since I am always so chaotic with my creating, I’m finding it helpful to do something to reign myself in a bit.
… no worries, we’re still here!
You have been letting blogging slide? I hadn’t noticed any slip in standards! Quality not quantity is the way to go!
Nurture is a great word. I cannot seem to progress past ‘chocolate’, and even I know that certain words, as much as we love them, will not cut it as a guide for a whole year. 🙂
A very fitting word, Kitty. Well chosen. We should all nurture ourselves a little more in many ways. 🙂